There's absolutely nothing worse than having someone politely tell u, that despite what u thought, your shit does indeed stink. If that doesn't send u thru a period of self realization, nothing else will. It made me realize, among other things, that my intentions as well as my actions are clandestine to everyone else except me. Admittedly, I try to keep things where I can control them, but from my perspective, I've always kept my motives and my actions pretty clear. Or so I thought until now. I've been made aware that only I know what I'm thinking and where I'm going...regardless of my intent to include others. This realization left me speechless and it took someone to look me in the eye and blatantly express to me what I thought was a gross misunderstaning. However in their eyes, it was clear that I was going left, where in my eyes, I'm going right. If the perception is so askew from reality, I have to take the responsibility upon myself and change it. So, this phase of my life is called..."Transparent". Not in the sense that people can see thru me, but rather getting to a point where people aren't hoodwinked with respect to my intentions. I no longer will strive to keep everything on a need to know basis in hopes that I will be understood at a greater level. I know what I'm doing and where I'm going and what my intentions are.moving forward, my goal is for u 2 know as well.(As it pertains to u)
Becomming Transparent!
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Peace,
Ramont
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Mont, it's good that you took what someone else said as motivation to change instead of becoming defensive. Apart of growing is being able to take constructive criticism and using it as an opportunity to change someone's perception of who you are.
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